When children identify less with their parents, and seek the emotional support of some outside figure, the results can be very unpredictable. Sometimes it's lethal.
Fifteen years ago, a prominent Tulsa prep school had a devastating sex scandal. The church who ran the school didn't handle it correctly. The school & church diminished since then. The school is completely closed now. the Church is desperate to sell all their campus and find a chaeper place to gather the much smaller congregation.
We often assume that male heterosexuals are the most likely perpetrators of sexual molestations. This prejudice can be as harmful as blind trust. The reality is that any person with special access to children, can also be harmful or helpful. So vigilance and honest family communication is essential to parenting in this culture.
This week, while visiting with family over the holidays, I read a sad story of another homosexual sex ring that a gay couple had developed in Minnesota. One boy's mental health crisis led to the exposure of a school teacher who drugged boys and let his gay lover join him in sexual exploits of the boys.
The two gay men fled when police closed in. they committed suicide while on the run, in rural Washington state. Some claimed that the denial of the "right" to homosexual marriage is the cause of sexual violence. That if a homosexual could find the stability of a monogamous institution of marriage, they would no longer see this level of homosexual molestation. We are still waiting for that 'reality' to be established.
Here's a snippit from the story that ran in the Minneapolis StarTribune, on December 29th. Breitbart news is also covering the matter.
Fifteen years ago, a prominent Tulsa prep school had a devastating sex scandal. The church who ran the school didn't handle it correctly. The school & church diminished since then. The school is completely closed now. the Church is desperate to sell all their campus and find a chaeper place to gather the much smaller congregation.
We often assume that male heterosexuals are the most likely perpetrators of sexual molestations. This prejudice can be as harmful as blind trust. The reality is that any person with special access to children, can also be harmful or helpful. So vigilance and honest family communication is essential to parenting in this culture.
This week, while visiting with family over the holidays, I read a sad story of another homosexual sex ring that a gay couple had developed in Minnesota. One boy's mental health crisis led to the exposure of a school teacher who drugged boys and let his gay lover join him in sexual exploits of the boys.
The two gay men fled when police closed in. they committed suicide while on the run, in rural Washington state. Some claimed that the denial of the "right" to homosexual marriage is the cause of sexual violence. That if a homosexual could find the stability of a monogamous institution of marriage, they would no longer see this level of homosexual molestation. We are still waiting for that 'reality' to be established.
Here's a snippit from the story that ran in the Minneapolis StarTribune, on December 29th. Breitbart news is also covering the matter.
 Matthew Deyo & Aric Babbitt committed suicide when revelations of the sex ring became known. The first victim came forward to police Aug. 14. He turned over pictures of himself naked with His former elementary teacher, Aric Babbitt. The teen said Babbitt agreed to be a mentor for him when he came out as gay to his family. The boy said he had sex with Babbitt & Babbitt's married partner, Matthew Deyo; both men at a downtown Minneapolis hotel during this past year’s "Gay Pride" Festival. The boy was at his family’s cabin when he started to have a panic attack about the sexual relationship and told his parents. A search of Babbitt and Deyo’s house took place Aug. 16. Police attempted to speak with Babbitt and Deyo and explain the nature of the investigation, but neither agreed to provide a statement. A volatile temper When investigators talked to the Deyos after their son’s death, they expressed concern about Matthew Deyo’s mental health in the last year and a half, police reports said. He had a volatile temper and would scream about something, and then apologize. Deyo had massive amounts of debt and school loans. He had always been a student, going to DePaul University for several months, graduating from St. Olaf College, and attending medical school in Grenada and chiropractic school in the Twin Cities. Police described him as a computer genius. The police case file, which is more than 100 pages, describes the sexual relationships in detail. Many followed a similar pattern: meeting the boy on social media, an exchange of nude photos and later a meeting in which Babbitt and Deyo would force or convince them to drink large amounts of alcohol or smoke marijuana. They bought the boys gifts, ranging from cellphones to clothing. Babbitt bought one victim a tablet, encouraging him to use it to view pornography. Often both men would have sex with the boys, the police reports said. Investigators had to work their way through complex passwords and double encryptions on Deyo’s computer. He also created an entire e-mail server and had his own domain. Deyo had videos taken from a hidden camera in the bathroom of their house. Investigators also found many videos of the men having sex with boys. Besides their home, the couple had sex with boys at a cabin they owned in rural Central Minnesota. Several victims said they were so drunk and high from smoking marijuana that they didn’t know how to stop the sexual advances. In the search of the couple’s house, police discovered jars full of marijuana. They also found droppers that appeared to have contained a liquid substance that investigators later determined was a synthetic drug that was being mixed with the marijuana. |
Parents have legitimate concerns about who the school assigns to the role of teacher, coach, counselor, etc. Often the schools hide employee data that parents feel is vital for them to know.
In Broken Arrow, a female coach recently went to prison for engaging is sexual acts with female students. But the criminal sentence for this crime was remarkably short. Shorter than men typically get for the same offense. It's commonly even shorter when female teachers engage in heterosexual molestations of boys.
What we, as a society, are saying is that molesting boys isn't as egregious as molesting girls. That is a form of bigotry that must end. We need to see our sons as just as worthy of protection as our daughters. We need to expect women in society to be just as accountable for their actions as are the men.
Minnesota is currently debating the suspension of 10 college football players for having group sex with a woman. The coach said the act(caught on video) was a violation of team conduct standards. Evidently, the coach claims the authority to set sexual standards at the public university. If it was a gay orgy among the team members, would they be suspended for that? Most think they would not have. Several additional team members have mounted a protest and refused to participate in the bowl game.
In Broken Arrow, a female coach recently went to prison for engaging is sexual acts with female students. But the criminal sentence for this crime was remarkably short. Shorter than men typically get for the same offense. It's commonly even shorter when female teachers engage in heterosexual molestations of boys.
What we, as a society, are saying is that molesting boys isn't as egregious as molesting girls. That is a form of bigotry that must end. We need to see our sons as just as worthy of protection as our daughters. We need to expect women in society to be just as accountable for their actions as are the men.
Minnesota is currently debating the suspension of 10 college football players for having group sex with a woman. The coach said the act(caught on video) was a violation of team conduct standards. Evidently, the coach claims the authority to set sexual standards at the public university. If it was a gay orgy among the team members, would they be suspended for that? Most think they would not have. Several additional team members have mounted a protest and refused to participate in the bowl game.
